Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Well, maybe he is not into you



Have you ever thought that your boyfriend don’t reply your phone, your text, your message and don’t even contact you Proactively just simply because he's shy, or he works too much, or he wants to take things slowly. Or maybe, just maybe, he's not that into you. Sure, these words sound harsh, I know you hate this phrase. I hate it more. Generally, because it's true-- even when we are living in complete denial about it.
Here are 6 signs he is not into you
He still hasn't asked you out.
If you're seeking mild flirtation or a virtual relationship, texting is fine-but if you want something more, then he needs to make a move in real life. If you're at a point where you don't want to wait anymore, stop waiting. You shouldn't have to force someone to ask you out.
He talks about his ex usually.
In the beginning of a relationship, each party should ideally have a clean slate and be on their best behavior, instead of showcasing their baggage like a badge of honor.
It's fine to bring up the ex once in a while under very neutral contexts, e. g., "My ex has the kids this week. " But talking incessantly about prior relationships is tacky and might also imply that there are still some unresolved issues lingering in his head.
Living in the past is extremely dangerous. If he can’t stop talking about how great the old flame was or how he enjoyed the things they did, chances are he still wishes he was in that moment. Do yourself (and him) a favor by making him go to chase her or to really prepare himself to be in a new relationship. Flag on the play!
Don’t introduced to his friends
No, it's not that he wants to keep you all to himself. Be honest with yourself. When he likes you, he's going to want to show you off and see what his friends think about you. By introducing you to his friends, who are doubtless a big part of his life, it shows that he wants to include you in all aspects of his life.
If He’s Aggressive
Is he pressing for sex on the next date? He wants to get into a relationship immediately. Refusing to commit to you is not a good thing, but neither is moving into a relationship at lightning speed. If your man tells you he loves you or wants to commit to you during or shortly after the first date, something is up. (Unless of course, you do too, and it's love at first sight for both of you. )#)
He's not ready for a relationship.
These guys will flat out tell you that they don't want to commit to you, but here you are, buy fashion clothing to impress him, baking them cookies, enjoying naked sleepovers and gushing to all your girlfriends about what a catch he is. Because, once he sees how great you are. The truth is-- he doesn't want a relationship (it's the same as not being ready for one), even with someone as lovable and wonderful as you. And you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince him otherwise, because his mind is already set.
Probably those words are harsh, but if he really not that into you, just leave. I believe everyone worth of happiness relationship.
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