Have you ever thought that your boyfriend
don’t reply your phone, your text, your message and don’t even contact you
Proactively just simply because he's shy, or he works too much, or he wants to
take things slowly. Or maybe, just maybe, he's not that into you. Sure, these
words sound harsh, I know you hate this phrase. I hate it more. Generally,
because it's true-- even when we are living in complete denial about it.
Here are 6 signs he is not into you
He still hasn't asked you out.
If you're seeking mild flirtation or a
virtual relationship, texting is fine-but if you want something more, then he
needs to make a move in real life. If you're at a point where you don't want to
wait anymore, stop waiting. You shouldn't have to force someone to ask you out.
He talks about his ex usually.
In the beginning of a relationship, each
party should ideally have a clean slate and be on their best behavior, instead
of showcasing their baggage like a badge of honor.
It's fine to bring up the ex once in a
while under very neutral contexts, e. g., "My ex has the kids this week.
" But talking incessantly about prior relationships is tacky and might
also imply that there are still some unresolved issues lingering in his head.
Living in the past is extremely dangerous.
If he can’t stop talking about how great the old flame was or how he enjoyed
the things they did, chances are he still wishes he was in that moment. Do
yourself (and him) a favor by making him go to chase her or to really prepare
himself to be in a new relationship. Flag on the play!
Don’t introduced to his friends
No, it's not that he wants to keep you all
to himself. Be honest with yourself. When he likes you, he's going to want to
show you off and see what his friends think about you. By introducing you to
his friends, who are doubtless a big part of his life, it shows that he wants
to include you in all aspects of his life.
If He’s Aggressive
Is he pressing for sex on the next date? He
wants to get into a relationship immediately. Refusing to commit to you is not
a good thing, but neither is moving into a relationship at lightning speed. If
your man tells you he loves you or wants to commit to you during or shortly
after the first date, something is up. (Unless of course, you do too, and it's
love at first sight for both of you. )#)
He's not ready for a relationship.
These guys will flat out tell you that they
don't want to commit to you, but here you are, buy fashion
clothing to impress him, baking them cookies, enjoying naked sleepovers
and gushing to all your girlfriends about what a catch he is. Because, once he
sees how great you are. The truth is-- he doesn't want a relationship (it's the
same as not being ready for one), even with someone as lovable and wonderful as
you. And you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince him otherwise,
because his mind is already set.
Probably those words are harsh, but if he
really not that into you, just leave. I believe everyone worth of happiness
relationship.
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